Advice Straight Up: The Soulmate Trap

For as long as I’ve had my practice, women have come to me talking about their “soulmate.” And I get it. I mean soulmates have been coined as the single most romantic phrase. He’s your soulmate! You two will live happily ever after forever and have a perfect life....

Advice Straight Up: Is he Cheating?

First off if you have to ask this question, he probably is. Sorry, but let’s be frank. I’m not the kind of therapist to run up someone’s tab just to keep them coming back to delve into whether or not he’s cheating, if you suspect it I bet there’s good reason. If...

Advice Straight Up: Does He Love Me?

I love this question. Actually, that’s not true. I hate it. Why? Because it’s right up there with “Is he cheating on me?” As they say, if you have to ask… I guess I get my knickers all in a twist over this not so much because the question is slightly inane but because...